is the title of one of my library books this week by Harriet Schechter. My house isn’t particularly cluttered – it’s just that I’ve found over the last year that reading a few de-cluttering books every now and then is an essential part of getting on top of my finances. I’ve found that regularly suppressing that impulse of ‘I have to have that’ is an important part of saving money and is a major part of good de-cluttering books. This paragraph may be a bit new age for some of you but I think it’s actually the key to saving money when we are constantly bombarded by advertising telling us we need things.
Visualize an endless, flowing river. Imagine that it’s composed of information, opportunities, and objects. Picture yourself dipping into this river whenever you choose to, at your own pace, anytime you feel thirsty. You’ll use a teaspoon, a glass or a cup, but not a bucket – after all, you’re not trying to bail it out. That would be impossible. Know that this river will never run dry, so you can relax. You’re not going to miss anything; there will always be more stuff flowing by. ……Let it flow, and let it go. (pg. 155; 2001)
